A private values reflection

What do you actually
care about?
Find out.

Fifteen minutes. No account. You leave with one page of what matters most, in your own words — for the people who may one day speak for you.

If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988 now.

Question 6 of 12 · Creative Expression What were you doing the last time you completely lost track of time?
What I care about Sample
Values & Beliefs Honesty over harmony. Say the hard thing, kindly.
Communication Style Direct, in person. No hints, no hallway news.
Relationships & Boundaries A small circle, held tightly. My husband reads my silences.
Health & Wellness Morning walks are non-negotiable. I fear losing my independence more than illness.
Creative Expression Sunday ceramics — the one hour that is only mine.
Life Goals A garden studio. Teach my granddaughter to throw a bowl.
Daily Rhythms Sharpest before nine. Guard the quiet; big decisions after coffee.
These are my own words, written by me.
Sample page, a fictional composite. Tapping changes only the sample; nothing is stored or sent.

Map of You in 15 seconds

Text version:
  1. Who knows what you'd want? If it came to that. Most people can't answer under pressure.
  2. Twelve questions, your own words. Values, health, relationships, daily rhythms: seven parts of you.
  3. No machine rewrites a word. No account. Skip anything. Your answers never leave your device.
  4. Leave with one page to hand over. About 15 minutes. Print it for the people who'd speak for you.
  5. Map of You. What do you actually care about? mapofyou.com

You are not one thing.
You're a constellation.

Tap a facet — each is a part of you most profiles never ask about. Seven taps, and the shape of you starts to show.

0 of 7 mapped
Pick where to start

What part of you wants to be understood first?

No right answers — only yours. The full reflection takes about fifteen minutes and stays private.

0 / 7 facets

No account required. Fifteen minutes. Yours to keep.

Every quiz tells you you're special.
This one asks instead.

Most tools hand you a flattering label — Visionary, Advocate, Champion — and you feel seen for an afternoon. You can't act on a compliment. Map of You gives no label and no verdict. It asks the questions a good friend might, a few of them uncomfortable, and hands your answers back word for word. Nothing scores you and nothing rewrites you.

That's why a map is worth handing to your family, your doctor, whoever may one day speak for you. A compliment tells them nothing about what you'd want. Your own answers, in your own words, tell them far more.

What you'll actually map — and the research behind it.

Map of You's questions draw on four research-backed frameworks. Each asks a different question. Nothing here scores you against them.

Ikigai

What is worth waking up for

The Japanese concept of ikigai sits at the intersection of four questions: What you love. What you're good at. What the world needs. What you can sustain. The overlap — your ikigai — is the thing that gives ordinary days meaning. In a 2008 Tohoku University cohort study of over 40,000 Japanese adults, a sense of ikigai was associated with lower all-cause and cardiovascular mortality.

Reveals: purpose + direction

Source: Ohsaki Study, 2008
VIA Character Strengths

The 24 traits that define your best self

Developed at the University of Pennsylvania's Positive Psychology Center, the VIA Classification identifies 24 character strengths — from curiosity and fairness to gratitude and bravery — that predict job satisfaction, life meaning, and wellbeing independently of IQ or personality type. Research published in Frontiers in Psychology found VIA strengths provide incremental predictive validity over and above the Big Five personality traits.

Reveals: who you are at your best

Source: VIA Institute on Character
Big Five / OCEAN

The most scientifically validated personality model

Openness. Conscientiousness. Extraversion. Agreeableness. Neuroticism. The Big Five (OCEAN) has the strongest cross-cultural replication of any personality framework — 50+ years of research, validated across 56 countries. Where VIA asks what energizes you, OCEAN describes the stable behavioral tendencies that shape how you move through the world: how you handle stress, relate to others, and approach the unknown.

Reveals: stable personality patterns

Reference: Big Five (OCEAN)
Values Clarification

What you actually prioritize under pressure

Values clarification research — including the Schwartz Theory of Basic Human Values, validated in 82 countries — shows that stated values and enacted values diverge sharply without structured reflection. The process of forcing trade-offs (autonomy vs. security; tradition vs. novelty) surfaces your real hierarchy, not the socially desirable one. This is the layer that matters most in healthcare decisions and advance care planning.

Reveals: your real decision hierarchy

Reference: Schwartz Basic Values
Why four frameworks and not one

No single framework captures the full picture. Personality tests tell you how you're wired; values assessments tell you what you're pointed toward; ikigai tells you what makes it feel worth it. Map of You borrows its questions from all four, and your page is your own answers, grouped by dimension — specific enough to hand to a physician, a caregiver, or someone who will one day make decisions on your behalf.

Sources: VIA Institute on Character; Schwartz Theory of Basic Human Values (82-country validation); Big Five meta-analysis (McCrae & Costa); Ikigai and longevity research, Tohoku University 2008.

See a finished page

Practice the values conversation
before the real one.

A page is half of it. The other half is telling your partner what matters to you, and hearing what matters to them. Four invented partners, about five minutes each: you answer in your own words, and a checker in your browser shows which needs your words met. It is scripted, not an AI, and nothing you type leaves your device.

The kind of questions
nobody asks you.

Step through ten real prompts from the assessment, drawn from across your map's seven dimensions. No right answers. No scoring.

Question 1 of 10
When you imagine a really good day ten years from now — what does it feel like? Who's there?
Life goals

No right answers. No scoring. Your responses stay private. Fifteen minutes for the full assessment.

Start your map.

The full reflection is here — seven dimensions, private, about fifteen minutes. You answer in your own words, and you get one page you can print and hand to the people who would have to speak for you. Warm up below: pick up to five words that feel most like you.

Step 1 · Pick up to five words that feel most like you

Your first coordinates appear here.

Picking a word updates only what is kept on this device. Nothing is sent anywhere.

Step 2 · Answer in your own words

No account, about fifteen minutes. Your answers stay on your device — nothing is uploaded, and nothing is rewritten by a machine.

Your map connects to
the care you'll actually need.

If your assessment surfaces concerns about aging — your own or a parent's — there's a next step.

co-op.care — care that works for your family

co-op.care is a worker-owned home care cooperative forming now in Boulder, Colorado; its care hasn’t started yet. It is being built so caregivers earn fair wages and real ownership, and families get consistent, accountable support. Your values map is where a care plan can start.

Start your care assessment

Naming what matters is step one. CareGoals puts it into Care Wishes for the person who would speak for you: tap-only cards, two people at one phone, no account.

Paying for care? ComfortCard helps families check, case by case, whether pre-tax dollars can pay for care.

Map of You is a values reflection tool, not a medical or psychological assessment. It does not diagnose, treat, or evaluate any condition. If you have concerns about your health or the health of a loved one, please consult a licensed provider. If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988 now.

Before you ask.

The things people want to know before they put themselves on a page.

How long does the reflection take?

About fifteen minutes, and you can pause anytime — your answers save on your own device as you go, so you can close the tab and come back. There's no account to create.

Is this a personality test?

No. Personality tests assign you a type. Map of You is a guided reflection — it draws on research-backed frameworks like VIA character strengths, the Big Five, Schwartz values, and ikigai, but what you get back is written in your own words, not a label.

Who can see my map?

You. Your map belongs to you — print it, copy it as text, clear it from your browser, or hand it to the people you choose. It is never sold, never used for ads, and never shown to anyone without your say-so.

Is this therapy or medical advice?

No. Map of You is a values-reflection tool, not a medical or psychological assessment. It doesn't diagnose or treat anything — and if something heavy surfaces, please bring it to a licensed professional.

What exactly do I get at the end?

A one-page map: what you value, how you communicate, what matters in your health decisions — and the language for sharing it. See the sample above; it's specific enough to hand to your doctor, your partner, or anyone who may one day speak for you.

Can my map follow me into care?

By hand, when you choose. Print it or copy it as text and give it to a care team or to the person who would speak for you. There is no care profile to sign in to: your map stays on this device. If care is on your mind, co-op.care has an assessment, and CareGoals turns what matters into Care Wishes.

Who makes Map of You, and why?

Map of You is part of the SolvingHealth family-care network. If your map ever surfaces a care need, it can be a head start with co-op.care — instead of a story you have to tell twice.